I loved this entire piece, and I’m so glad to have discovered your work.

Becoming “unattached” in my marriage likely saved it from certain doom. My wife does this on her own, but was nonverbal about it. I lagged behind and had all kinds of unhealthy attachments to her and her behavior. It has taken me years to work through some of this, and I’m still learning.

I loved reading this. Thanks for writing it.

crs